For the poet and author, a winning agenda includes bookstore shopping, a stroll along the Santa Monica Pier and "Bridgerton"-style afternoon tea at the Peninsula.

One of my friends wore a fascinator. I wore lace gloves ... turn the lights down and try to have the last hour with no blue light, sugar, food, and keep it really quiet and soft.

Here are the timeless and reliable favorites from the many clothing and style gifts we’ve recommended over the years.

If you’re petite, stick to delicately feathered fascinators or smaller designs, whilst taller ladies can pull off wide brimmed styles. Bright bold colours are recommended but if in doubt ...