Coeur d'Alene, Idaho — Your birthday is the one time of year when it's OK to be selfish. It's all about you, and kids have been basking in that ... "The most perfect answer ever." Grant's wish was to ...

Remember when a child's birthday party meant cake ... goody bags because each child now had a bear. The kids "loved it—and they were all boys!" she said. Find a balance. Karen H.