Which baby shower thank you cards are best? After a baby shower, there are gifts to organize and baby prep to get done. You feel like you need a beat before sending out thank you cards ...

A mother-to-be from California has sparked a Twitter debate after revealing that one of her baby shower guests has given her the relief of not having to write out personal "thank you" cards.

Dear Annie: There have been two different occasions where I sent a baby shower gift ... hadn’t sent me a thank you. Both of them made sure to mention that a thank-you card WAS sent.