Paul Archuleta/FilmMagic, Tasos Katopodis/Getty, Paul Archuleta/FilmMagic Financier Josh Connor is only a friend ... appeared at a Santa Barbara, California court for a child support hearing ...

"Her friends and family have been incredibly supportive of her relationship with Josh," a source tells ... intimate dinner for two in Santa Barbara. But Connor, 49, had something even more ...

Josh Connor, are moving on - and moving out! - of their individual homes in California. Baumgartner, 50, was renting a house in Santa Barbara for $40,000 per month during her divorce from Costner ...

The actor's estranged wife, 49, was spotted at the beach with her kids on Thursday, and photos first published by TMZ showed her also spending time with Josh ... out of the Santa Barbara home ...